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Why Michelle Obama is skipping Trump’s inauguration

The former first lady will not attend the president-elect’s inauguration and also missed Jimmy Carter’s state funeral in Washington DC earlier this month

Rhian Lubin
in New York
,Joe Sommerlad
Monday 20 January 2025 16:59 GMT
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Trump and Obama share a laugh at former president Jimmy Carter's funeral
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Former first lady Michelle Obama is skipping Donald Trump’s inauguration because she doesn’t want to “plaster” on a smile for someone she fundamentally believes is a threat to American democracy, according to a report.

It was confirmed last week that she would not be attending the president-elect’s swearing-in but her office did not give any further explanation in its brief statement. The 44th president was introduced by himself and took his seat inside the Capitol rotunda next to his fellow former presidents Bill Clinton and George W Bush, as well as their wives Hillary Clinton and Laura Bush.

Former House speaker Nancy Pelosi also snubbed the event.

Michelle Obama also missed Jimmy Carter’s state funeral last week due to a “scheduling conflict,” although it subsequently emerged she had been on vacation in Hawaii.

Interestingly, she has actually not been seen publicly in the company of her husband since both spoke at the Democratic National Convention in Chicago in August, where her speech championing the candidacy of Vice President Kamala Harris and attacking the Republican nominee’s “ugly, misogynistic, racist lies” went down a storm.

Barack Obama showed up to the second high-profile event this year without Michelle by his side.
Barack Obama showed up to the second high-profile event this year without Michelle by his side. (Getty)

That said, she did thank Barack for “always having my back, being by my side, and finding ways to make me smile” on Instagram on the occasion of their 32nd wedding anniversary.

Speculation about her absence from Trump’s inauguration has been rife since her announcement and now a source close to Obama has shared the real reason, according to People.

“There’s no overstating her feelings about [Trump]. She’s not one to plaster on a pleasant face and pretend for protocol’s sake,” the source told the outlet.

“Michelle doesn’t do anything because it’s expected or it’s protocol or it’s tradition.

Michelle Obama attended Trump’s first inauguration in 2017
Michelle Obama attended Trump’s first inauguration in 2017 (Getty)

“She would be expected to swallow her feelings in the spotlight if she attended his second inauguration.”

But both Donald and Melania Trump refused to attend Joe Biden’s swearing-in in January 2021, making them the first American leaders not to attend the succession since 1869.

Michelle Obama, who served as first lady from 2009 to 2017, did attend Trump’s first inauguration in January 2017 and later revealed her discomfort at being expected to sit in the audience and watch him be sworn in as commander-in-chief.

Obama took his seat next to his fellow former presidents Bill Clinton and George W Bush , as well as their wives Hillary Clinton and Laura Bush .
Obama took his seat next to his fellow former presidents Bill Clinton and George W Bush , as well as their wives Hillary Clinton and Laura Bush . (Getty)

“To sit on that stage and watch the opposite of what we represented on display, there was no diversity, there was no color on that stage,” she said on her show The Light Podcast in 2023.

“There was no reflection of the broader sense of America. Many people took pictures of me and they’re like, ‘You weren’t in a good mood.’ No, I was not.”

Obama went on to say that she cried for half an hour after the ceremony “because that’s how much we were holding it together for eight years without really being able to show it all”.

Barack Obama and Donald Trump appeared to get along at Jimmy Carter’s funeral earlier this month, which Michelle Obama also skipped
Barack Obama and Donald Trump appeared to get along at Jimmy Carter’s funeral earlier this month, which Michelle Obama also skipped (AFP/Getty)

Despite a great deal of pressure on her to run for the presidency on the Democratic ticket in future, Obama has largely shunned politics since leaving Washington and “doesn’t feel the need to be a public figure anymore,” according to People’s source.

Her animosity towards Trump is no secret, given that the 45th and 47th president has regularly insulted and attacked her family, referring to her husband disparagingly as “Barack Hussein Obama” and making comments about people of color that have “contributed to Michelle’s opinion of him”, as People’s source put it.

For his part, Barack Obama appears not to mind Trump’s taunts and was seen sharing a laugh and engaging in polite conversation with him during Carter’s funeral at Washington National Cathedral.

Trump reflected on the moment afterwards by telling a reporter of the moment: “It did look very friendly, I must say. I didn’t realize how friendly it looked.

“I saw it on your wonderful network just a little while ago before I came in.

“And I said, ‘Boy, they look like two people who like each other.’ We probably do.”

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