JJ Vallow’s family send powerful message to convicted ‘cult mom’ Lori

JJ’s grandparents Larry and Kay Woodcock choked up with emotion as they spoke outside Ada County Courthouse in Boise, Idaho, after the verdict in the doomsday cult mom’s trial was read out

The grandparents of Joshua “JJ” Vallow sent a powerful message to his mother Lori Vallow after she was convicted of all charges in the murders of the seven-year-old boy, his sister Tylee Ryan, 16, and Chad Daybell’s first wife Tammy.

JJ’s grandparents Larry and Kay Woodcock choked up with emotion as they spoke to reporters outside Ada County Courthouse in Boise, Idaho, on Friday after the verdict in the doomsday cult mom’s trial was read out.

“My final message for Lori,” said Mr Woodcock, before breaking into the song “The party’s over” – a song that he and JJ used to sing together.

“Turn out the lights, the party’s over. They say that all good things must end,” he sang.

He then paused and addressed Vallow, saying: “Lori it ended.”

JJ’s uncle Gerry Vallow also chimed in: “They got the b**ch.”

Mr Woodcock vowed that the conviction of the mother-of-three “is not the end of this” as the family would return to face her at her sentencing in around 90 days’ time.

They will also continue to fight for justice as Mr Daybell is due to stand trial over the three murders next year and Vallow is also awaiting trial for conspiracy to murder her fourth husband – JJ’s father – Charles Vallow in a separate trial in Arizona.

“Guys we got two more trials, two more,” he said.

“The next trial is Chad. I look forward to being back in this courthouse again.”

The Woodcocks have attended every day of the trial of the woman now convicted of their seven-year-old grandson’s murder, listening to harrowing testimony of the little boy’s last hours alive and seeing graphic photos of his remains buried on Mr Daybell’s property.

Larry Woodcock hugs an attendee after the verdict was read (AP)

It was Larry and Kay who raised the alarm about JJ and Tylee back in September 2019 when the mother-of-three moved them from Arizona to Rexburg, Idaho, and they couldn’t get in touch with their grandson.

Nine months later in June 2020, JJ and Tylee’s remains were found in shallow graves on Mr Daybell’s property.

After the trial stalled for almost three years in the courts, Vallow was finally held to account on Friday.

The jury took almost seven hours to find Vallow guilty of first-degree murder, conspiracy to commit first-degree murder and grand theft over the deaths of Tylee and JJ.

She was also found guilty of conspiracy to commit first-degree murder in the death of Mr Daybell’s first wife Tammy, 49.

Dressed in a black suit, with her blonde hair down in waves around her shoulders, Vallow stood between her two attorneys as the verdict was read out.

She showed no reaction as she learned that the jury had returned a verdict of guilty on all charges.

Speaking outside court, Mr Woodcock moved between sorrow and relief as he paid tribute to the three victims and questioned how Vallow could ahve done what she did.

Speaking directly to his murdered grandson, he sobbed: “JJ, I love you. Papa wishes you were here in other circumstances. Tylee, papa loves you.

“Tammy, I never met you. Tammy you are part of our lives. I am sorry for what happened to you, my heart hurts for these three. This is what this has been all about from the very get go.

“It started with two children missing. I stood up and I said ‘where are the children, where are the children, where are the children? Give us back our children.”

To Vallow, he questioned: “Why Lori? Why Lori? Why? For power, sex and greed? For what? For what?”

Mr Woodcock thanked all the jurors, “meticulous” prosecutors and all law enforcement officials who worked on the case.

“I want to personally thank and I want to personally hug every one of those jurors,” said Mr Woodcock.

“What they want through what they saw is mindboggling. I hope that no one ever has to go through this. I hope that nobody ever has to see or hear the details of what hapened to JJ, to Tylee and to Tammy.”

Choking back tears, he acknowledged that some of the images people have “seen in this case... maybe some people will never unsee”.

Ms Woodcock also praised the “amazing law enforcement” on the case and said that now they hope to be able to put JJ and Tylee “to rest” and “do right by them”.

“Love always wins,” she said.

Lori Vallow Daybell talks with her lawyers before the jury’s verdict is read at the Ada County Courthouse in Boise, Idaho (AP)

JJ and Tylee vanished without a trace back in September 2019, with their mother refusing to reveal their whereabouts to both authorities and the children’s desperate family members.

One month later, Tammy – an otherwise healthy 49-year-old – also died suddenly. Her death was initially ruled natural causes.

This bizarre spate of disappearances and death came just months after Vallow’s fourth husband Charles was shot dead by Vallow’s brother Alex Cox in Arizona in July 2019.

With Vallow’s children and both of their spouses then out of the way, she and Mr Daybell embarked on a new life together – flying to Hawaii to get married in a fairytale wedding on the beach.

But, with months passing since the last signs of life of Vallow’s children, concerns continued to grow, prompting authorities to exhume Tammy’s body. A subsequent autopsy revealed that she had died by asphyxiation.

In June 2020 – nine months after they were last seen alive – Tylee and JJ’s remains were found buried on the grounds of Mr Daybell’s property in Rexburg, Idaho.

JJ, who had autism, had been smothered with a plastic bag taped over his face, his little body still dressed in a pair of red pyjamas. Tylee’s cause of death meanwhile has been impossible to establish as the teenager’s dismembered, charred bones and body parts were found scattered in the ground on Mr Daybell’s pet cemetery.

Over six weeks, jurors in Ada County Court heard harrowing details about the doomsday mom’s path of deadly destruction and were shown graphic images of the murdered children’s remains.

The state called over 60 witnesses to lay out its case that Vallow was motivated by both her doomsday cult beliefs but also lust for Mr Daybell and financial greed when she conspired with him and her brother Cox to kill the three victims.

In a bombshell move – that may now have proven fatal – the defence shocked the court on Tuesday when Vallow’s attorneys announced that they would not present any defence case or call any witnesses, paving the way for closing arguments to begin earlier than anticipated.

During closing arguments on Thursday, prosecutors argued that Ms Vallow had been driven by “money, power and sex” to kill the three victims.

Ms Vallow and Mr Daybell met at a religious conference in October 2018 when they were both married and began an affair.

As their romance grew, so too did their cult beliefs and conspiracy to kill.

Jurors heard how the doomsday couple believed that they were on a religious mission to gather the 144,000 and that there was a “rating system of light and dark” for the spirits of the people around them.

In the weeks and months before the murders, Ms Vallow allegedly told friends that JJ and Tylee had become “demons”.

Prosecutors said that Ms Vallow used these beliefs to “justify” the murders of her children and love rival.

Tylee Ryan and Joshua “JJ” Vallow (Family handout)

The state argued that the murders were “premeditated” and “planned” – pointing to evidence including the stash of burner phones the three alleged accomplices had, Cox’s practice at a shooting range prior to a botched attempt on Tammy’s life and a deliberate plan for Ms Vallow to be in Hawaii at the time of Tammy’s murder.

Days before each child was killed, Ms Vallow then allegedly altered their Social Security payments so that the money would be paid directly into her account.

Prosecutor Rob Wood told jurors that Ms Vallow was the ringleader of the murderous plot, and that she “groomed” and “manipulated” both Mr Daybell and Cox to commit the murders.

Ms Vallow was the “one common thread” tying all the suspects and killings together, he said.

Meanwhile, in the defence’s closing statement, Ms Vallow’s attorneys flipped the narrative, arguing that – instead of being the leader – Ms Vallow was the “follower” of her new lover Mr Daybell.

In what marked the first time Ms Vallow has turned on her lover in the almost three years for the case to go to trial, her attorney Jim Archibald sought to paint her as a hardworking “good mom” whose life suddenly unraveled when she met Mr Daybell.

“One year after meeting Chad, four people are dead,” said Mr Archibald.

Vallow’s alleged co-conspirators are yet to face justice over the killings.

Mr Daybell was due to stand trial with Vallow but the cases were severed weeks before her day in court.

He is now due to stand trial in 2024 over the three murders.

Meanwhile, the third person accused by state prosecutors as a co-conspirator in the case won’t ever be have his day in court.

On 11 December 2019 – hours after Tammy’s body was exhumed – Cox died suddenly at the age of 51. His death was also ruled natural causes, with indications of a blood clot wedged in the arteries of his lungs. However the overdose drug Narcan was also found in his system.

Vallow’s own legal troubles are also far from over as she is still facing trial in Arizona on charges of conspiring with Cox to murder Charles Vallow.