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Parents are more comfortable talking to their children about sex than technology, poll claims

Many do not understand new online trends, poll suggests

Steve Richmond
Tuesday 28 January 2020 18:34 GMT
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Parents find talking to their children about sex less awkward than discussing technology because of their lack of knowledge when it comes to computers, apps and memes, research suggests.

A study revealed 56 per cent of mothers and fathers found it easier to talk about sex and puberty with their children than the latest online trends.

Almost six in 10 parents even said they turned to their children for help with tech and gadgets, rather than it being the other way around.

The survey of 1,000 parents, commissioned by BT Skills for Tomorrow, also found that while many are familiar with classic acronyms like LOL, BTW and ATM, only seven per cent were aware that PAW means "parents are watching".

And 10 per cent did not understand any online vernacular at all.

More than one-quarter have no idea what Tik Tok is, with another 48 per cent aware of it, but admitting they have no idea how to use it.

Professor Kerensa Jennings, digital impact director at BT, said: “Children are extremely bright and are often ahead of the game when it comes to understanding the capabilities of the internet - safety is paramount and it’s vital parents have these important conversations with their kids at an early age.

“New technology is constantly changing family life, so we want to help parents feel more confident about helping their children to navigate the online world."

The survey, which also polled 1,000 children aged six to 14, revealed that when it comes to advice, one in five youngsters wouldn’t ask parents a tech question because they "rarely know the answer".

And 35 per cent say their mums and dads aren't familiar with the websites or apps they use.

As a result, four in 10 kids firmly believe they’re more educated on technology than their parents.

It also emerged that as children get older, they also become less likely to go to their parents for tech advice and look to their friends.

Almost a quarter of children aged six to eight will go to their pals for help with their gadgets compared to 53 per cent of 13- and 14-year-olds.

And a quarter will turn to YouTube for advice, according to the OnePoll survey.

Despite this, nine in 10 parents understand the importance of being clued up when it comes to educating children on the internet.

To do this, parents will search online, speak to friends or look to take an online training course to further educate themselves when it comes to online and tech.

Almost six in 10 children also claim they would be more likely to go to their parents if they bettered their online knowledge.​

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