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Dando Murder: `Jill was devoted sister to me'

Gary Finn
Tuesday 27 April 1999 23:02 BST
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NIGEL DANDO, Jill's brother, said yesterday that when he saw his sister three weeks ago, she could barely contain her excitement over her September wedding. Mr Dando, chief reporter on the Bristol Evening Post, said their Sunday lunch revolved around her marriage to Alan Farthing. Yesterday both men were inconsolable.

But while Mr Farthing, 35, a gynaecologist at St Mary's Hospital in London, was too distraught to speak about the incident, Mr Dando returned to work to pay tribute to his television presenter sister.

"She was looking forward immensely to getting married ... the wedding had been planned to the last detail," he wrote yesterday in the Evening Post's sister paper, the Western Daily Press.

"I have spoken to her fiance, Alan Farthing. He is devastated and I feel so sorry for him."

Mr Dando, 47, who was comforting his father, Jack, 81, said he would remember his little sister most of all for being "a very, very kind and very loving person who always put her family first.

"She was extremely natural, she was friendly, she was bubbly, she was happy, she was loving. It wasn't an act.

"I've been ill recently and she was constantly on the phone checking how I was. She was devoted to my father and was a devoted sister to me," Mr Dando added.

The journalist said he was working in the Evening Post newsroom on Monday when he received phone calls asking if he had heard about an incident.

"I tried to do some calls of my own to check on what had happened and then a news flash came through on one of the TV channels.

"I'm devastated by the news. I have no idea what the motive was for this. My father is bearing up well but obviously it has come as a huge, huge shock to him, as it has to me and all her relatives and friends."

Mr Farthing's father, John, 64, said yesterday of his son: "I think that the full shock has not set in. He has got a lot of extremely good friends who are being supportive. He is making regular calls to us but we are not pressuring him. It is all in his own time."

He added: "We are absolutely shattered. She was readily accepted into the family and we could not ever have wanted a better person as a daughter- in-law."

The BBC now has the task of deciding what to do with the television programmes Ms Dando was due to appear in.

It said no decision had been taken over the future of itsseries Antiques Inspectors, which began last Sunday. The Bafta Television Awards on 9 May will now be presented solely by Michael Parkinson. Crimewatch UK will go ahead next month and Nick Ross will present it alone.

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