Single father posts emotional open letter about the fears he faced raising his daughter alone
Richard Johnson wrote how he was 'nervous and scared' and watched 'over 1,000 hours' of Youtube videos on parenting
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Your support makes all the difference.A single father's emotional open letter about his fears over parenting alone is going viral online.
Richard Johnson, father to 10-month old Persephone, originally posted a 'thank you' on the Facebook page of World of Dad, a group for fathers.
In it Mr Johnson wrote that Persephone's mother left a month after their daughter was born and that he was "nervous and scared" of being a father.
As a result, he wrote, he read every parenting book he could find and watched "over 1,000 hours" of Youtube videos on the subject. He also began to take note of the experiences of other people in his position.
Life of Dad,My name is Richard Johnson, and I'm a single father to a beautiful little girl named Persephone. Her...
Posted by Life of Dad on Tuesday, 10 November 2015
The post proved hugely popular, receiving more than 19,700 likes, and Mr Johnson wrote a second, longer post a day later giving more details of his experience.
In it he wrote:
I come from a family of divorce and was raise by a single mother. When my father left when I was 6 I didn't know I wouldn't see or hear from him again until I was 21.
So being that I never had a father it was truly frightening to become one. Even more so when I was going to do it alone. I didn't have time to be worried though because that beautiful little girl needed a parent who could be her rock and would love her to pieces.
In my mind there was no other option.
The days have been rough and at times I wasn't sure I could make it another day.
I spent more then a few nights holding my little girl as she slept weeping because I wasn't sure I was going to be a good enough father for her.
One night in particular was the night she first crawled. She came to me and laid her tiny little hand on my cheek and stared into my eyes.
I took it as "Come on Daddy, we have a lot to do." So I told her no more crying for either of us and we were going to fight to be happy.
I honestly don't know what to say. I've been reading everyone's comments and I'd be lying if I said I haven't became a...
Posted by Life of Dad on Wednesday, 11 November 2015
The follow-up post has so far received more than 7,000 likes.
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