'I had a miscarriage': Mother launches Instagram account to end the silence around pregnancy loss
Even though one in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage, it remains a topic we rarely discuss
Your support helps us to tell the story
From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it's investigating the financials of Elon Musk's pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, 'The A Word', which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.
At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.
The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.
Your support makes all the difference.A mother has created an Instagram account to end the silence and create a support network for those affected by miscarriage.
Joanna Zucker, from Los Angeles, has worked as a psychologist specialising in women’s reproductive and maternal mental health for almost decade, often treating women after pregnancy loss.
But it wasn’t until her own traumatic miscarriage that she truly understood the stigma and silence that surrounds it.
After experiencing a miscarriage at 16 weeks with her second child, Zucker created the Instagram account ‘I had a miscarriage’ to document her feelings using the hashtag #Ihadamiscarriage.
Soon enough, the page grew a far-reaching audience and she invited other women to use the account to submit their own stories.
“My personal experience was a way to model for other women around the world that there is absolutely no shame in loss,” she told Self.
“The research overwhelmingly points to women experiencing shame, self-blame and guilt following pregnancy and loss. I had to really think it through.
“As a psychologist, you don’t typically share the details of your life. But [pregnancy loss] doesn’t mean anything about who you are, or your body being a failure.”
As part of the movement, Zucker has also designed t-shirts with the word ‘Mama’ written alongside a rainbow to represent a ‘rainbow baby’ – a term commonly used by parents who have become pregnant after a miscarriage.
Zucker hopes that these t-shirts will work against the shame and guilt that often surrounds loss and instead allow women to take a sense of pride in their journeys.
“By putting it out there in the world and sharing it with women globally, people then feel this sense of recognition and a robust community,” she says.
“I don't have to know you, because it's social media, but I know those feelings so well. In so many of comments or messages people say, 'I could have written this myself.'
“Part of the point is to really show that we're more similar than we think.”
Join our commenting forum
Join thought-provoking conversations, follow other Independent readers and see their replies
Comments