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The best time of day for having sex with your partner depends on how old you are, according to a sleep and body expert.
Rather than sex being a spontaneous act, there are in fact times of the day when libido is higher depending on whether someone is in their twenties, fifties or seventies according to Dr Paul Kelley.
Dr Kelley, a clinical research associate at Oxford University's Sleep and Circadian Neuroscience Institute, said body clocks change over each decade, according to some research he originally carried out for the Daily Mail .
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Love and sex news: in pictures Students who marry after studying the same subject Picking a university subject is already difficult enough for young people. But here’s an extra piece of data to weigh on your decision: you may be picking a life partner as well. Dan Kopf of the blog, Priceonomics, analysed US Census data and found that the percentage of Americans who marry someone within their own major is actually fairly high. About half of Americans are married, according to the 2012 American Community Survey (part of the Census). And about 28 per cent of married couples over the age of 22 both graduated from college. (The survey didn’t recognise same-sex marriages for the 2012 data, but it will for 2013 onwards, says Kopf).
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Love and sex news: in pictures How much sex we have (and how much we'd like) As a nation, we don’t have as much sex as we would like, a survey has (somewhat unsurprisingly) confirmed. In a poll of 1523 people by YouGov, 64 per cent of Britons said they would wish to have sex at least a few times a month. The same sample said that only 38 per cent had sex at least a few times a month. In addition, 10 per cent said they wished to have sex every day, a goal which only 1 per cent admitted reaching.
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Love and sex news: in pictures The new female condom Picture an internal condom. The chances are you’re thinking of something which resembles a carrier bag. However, this could all be about to change with the new VA w.o.w. Condom Feminine. Not only is it a wireless, Bluetooth enabled, vibrating interactive device, which comes available in the shape of a heart, but the manufacturers think you’ll love it more than not using a condom at all.
Love and sex news: in pictures One in five Brits admit to having had an affair One in five British adults admits they have had an affair, according to a new poll. 20 per cent of male respondents and 19 per cent of female respondents admitted to having had an affair in a new poll of 1660 respondents by YouGov.
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Love and sex news: in pictures Questions that determine if you're in love The existence of love and its nature is something that has troubled philosophers for centuries, but a pair of scientists believe they have a set of questions that yield "clear empirical evidence" of it, or at least whether your relationship will end in divorce. They are: 'How happy are you in your marriage relative to how happy you would be if you weren't in the marriage?' and 'How do you think your spouse answered that question?'
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"Your body clock changes with age, when you feel like waking up. It actually controls every body system and controls every one of the trillion cells in your body," Dr Kelley told the Telegraph. "In most things we've got the timings right, but we haven't accounted for these changes".
So when is the optimal time for each age group to have sex?
* Twenties - 15:00. Dr Kelley has narrowed down the peak of libido for this age bracket to three o'clock in the afternoon. While they can want sex at any time of the day, there is a peak of sexual energy at this point for the twenty-somethings.
* Thirties - 8:20. A shift in body clock at this age means you wake up earlier - so having sex earlier is a good idea. Dr Kelley pinpoints the magic minutes around 8:20 am, when sunlight boosts testosterone in both men and women.
* Forties - 22:20. Again, you will feel more alert earlier the older you get, so you need to go to bed earlier. Dr Kelley recommends sex some time after 10pm before you go to sleep.
* Fifties - 22:00. As bedtime gets earlier, time for sex does too. The mornings tend to be busier for 50-something-year-olds, Dr Kelley told the Telegraph , so is not an ideal time for intimacy.
* Sixties - 20:00. After an orgasm you release oxytocin, which is a wakefulness hormone - and as you go to bed earlier in your late age, you may want to have sex sometime before trying to sleep.
* Seventies - 20:00. The same as above is true of 70-year-olds, who should rise earlier around 6:30am and will need to hop into bed earlier too.
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