Scoring

1. a = 0 b = 5 c = 0 d = 5

2. a = 0 b = 5 c = 5 d = 0

3. a = 0 b = 5 c = 0 d = 5

4. a = 5 b = 1 c = 4 d = 0

5. a = 2 b = 0 c = 5 a = 0

1 – 15 You display an admirable consistency of principle and discipline when it comes to loyalty and faithfulness in your relationships. However, it's hard to compete with a paragon so remember to be extra forgiving and compassionate with others.

16 – 31 What's difficult for you is consistency. It's fine to play the field when you're young and fancy free but perhaps you need to work out a better set of adult boundaries now the stakes are getting higher?

32 – 46 What can I say? You either need to join the nearest swinging circle or prepare for a fair volume of flying crockery. Small tip – for goodness sake, find someone as polyamorous as yourself for a partner. You'd break the hearts of 90 per cent of the rest of us.

Phillip Hodson is a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy www.bacp.co.uk www.philliphodson.co.uk