How to throw an authentic Mexican taco party

Genevieve Ko takes inspiration from Mexico City’s taquizas for an end-of-summer get together with her friends

A taquiza is basically a taco buffet (Getty/iStock)

Five years ago, when her son was still in high school, Alejandra Graf invited his soccer team over for a taquiza, a type of party she grew up with in Mexico City. She picked up packs of the biggest, deepest chafing dishes from Costco and filled them with cochinita pibil, the juicy shredded pork reaching the rims of the pans, just as the other taco fillings, the steaming rice and the beans did. Lined up in Graf’s home in Katy, Texas, the trays were surrounded by bowls of homemade salsas and warm tortillas.

More than 20 players demolished all of the food. They were familiar with tacos, especially the Tex-Mex ones in their hometown, but none had experienced a taquiza, where everyone serves themselves, stuffing tortillas from a buffet of guisados, different stews like chicken with salsa verde or mole. Graf, who writes the blog Piloncillo y Vainilla, says: “Those kids still remember that day. It was just super fun.”

Making sure a party is super fun should be the point, not just for the guests, but also the host – especially at the end of summer and another long season of life. A spread of tacos offers big flavours – savoury, spicy, fresh – for a big crowd, while giving the host time to spend with everyone. And it’s an ideal setup for guests to build their own meals while welcoming them to share in the joy of hospitality.

Esteban Castillo, author of Chicano Eats and the coming Chicano Bakes, spent his childhood Sundays with family at carne asadas in southern California (“Carne asada” translates to roasted meat and refers to a dish of grilled steak, but is also a style of potluck with grilling at the centre). They’d throw carne asada on the grill, along with Cornish game hens, chicken, chorizo and cebollitas, spring onions with white bulbs. On the tables sat salsa molcajete, pico de gallo, guacamole, arroz rojo, frijoles charros and, of course, tortillas, which his aunts made by hand.

But, in addition to taquizas and carne asadas, there are as many ways to serve everything that goes in or with tacos as there are formulas for tacos. Here are a few universal keys to success, according to Graf and Castillo.

Get everyone involved

The sense of community that comes with tacos starts long before you’re standing alongside friends, talking and eating while salsa drips down your hands. Ask them to pitch in even before they arrive. Castillo recommends that hosts provide 75 per cent of the food and ask others to bring chips, salsas, salads, fruit, beer, mixers for drinks and desserts, such as chocoflan.

For Graf, the shared experience comes in the form of “extra hands in the kitchen”. She often enlists her mother and husband, and encourages hosts to pick a few family members or friends to share in replenishing food.

Prepare as much as you can ahead of time

Part of what makes a taco-centred gathering so enjoyable is that there’s hardly anything left to do when it’s time to eat. For a taquiza, guisados like chicken tinga, lamb birria and chile rojo with beef or nopales can be fully cooked days ahead. When reheated, they become even more flavourful. The same is true of beans, both whole ones in frijoles de la olla or puréed ones in a refried blend of frijoles de fiesta. For a carne asada, Castillo notes that whatever you want to grill can be marinated long before guests arrive.

Tortillas matter

Warming tortillas is the one thing that has to be done just before serving. “They have to be ‘del comal a la mesa,’” Graf says, adding that they don’t literally need to go straight from a hot pan to the table. Instead, she heats them one by one on a comal, then stacks and wraps them in a kitchen towel to keep them tender (Castillo does the same, using the grill to lightly char tortillas before swaddling them). For a really big party, a tortillero, a covered basket designed to keep tortillas warm, works well.

Even before you warm tortillas, you want to find the freshest ones. If you live near a tortilleria or supermarket that makes them daily, pick up packs in the morning (or ask someone else to on their way over). You also can make your own corn tortillas or Sonoran-style flour ones. (If you can’t find or make fresh tortillas, be sure to warm whatever you have to refresh them.)

Make sure there are drinks

Obviously. Huge pitchers of cold agua fresca are a must because they’re alcohol-free and refreshing, especially in summer when they’re blended from cucumber or watermelon.

Relax and have fun

Tacos are like the perfect party playlist, lifting the mood and making everyone feel good. “It’s just a very laid-back potluck,” Castillo says. “I just want to feed everyone, and I want everyone to have a good time.” Tacos make achieving both so easy.

Carne asada

Nothing beats the smoky richness of charred sliced steak stuffed into tortillas (Getty)

Nothing beats the smoky richness of charred sliced steak stuffed into tortillas. Carne asada translates to “grilled meat” and refers to the many variations on this dish, as well as parties that centre around grilling the marinated meat. Castillo combines the intensity of a dry spice rub with a citrus juice marinade in his recipe. Sometimes, he pours some beer into the mix too, but this version, fresh with coriander, garlic and spring onions, already gives the steak big, aromatic flavours.

Serves: 4 to 6

Total time: 35 minutes, plus 2 hours’ marinating

Ingredients:

For the steak seasoning (see tip):

1 guajillo chilli, or equivalent, stemmed, seeded, lightly toasted and cooled

¾ tsp black peppercorns

½ tsp coriander seeds

¼ tsp cumin seeds

2¼ tsp dehydrated minced garlic

2¼ tsp dehydrated minced onion

¾ tsp salt

For the steak:

60ml fresh lime juice (from 4 large limes)

60ml fresh orange juice (from 1 large orange)

1 tbsp Worcestershire sauce

1½ tsp vegetable oil

13g chopped coriander

2 spring onions, sliced

2 garlic cloves, sliced

680g flank, flap or skirt steak

For assembly:

12 to 16 corn tortillas

Salsas, for serving

Method:

1. Make the steak seasoning: tear the cooled chilli into small pieces and place in a spice grinder, along with the peppercorns, coriander and cumin. Pulse until everything is roughly ground. Transfer to a small bowl and stir in the garlic, onion and salt.

2. Marinate the steak: in a small bowl, whisk together the lime juice, orange juice, Worcestershire sauce, oil, coriander, spring onions, garlic and 1 tablespoon steak seasoning. Place the steak in a resealable freezer bag or shallow dish, and pour in the marinade. Make sure the steak is evenly coated. Seal the bag, or cover the dish and refrigerate for 2 hours.

3. Heat an outdoor charcoal or gas grill to medium, or set an indoor grill pan over medium.

4. Transfer the steak to a baking tray lined with foil (discard the marinade). Sprinkle the remaining steak seasoning all over the steak. Grill for 3 to 4 minutes on each side for medium-rare, 4 to 5 minutes for medium and 6 to 7 minutes for well done. Remove the steak from the grill (but leave the grill on) and let rest on a cutting board for about 10 minutes before cutting into thin, small slices.

5. While the steak rests, warm the tortillas: reduce the grill heat to medium-low. Place the tortillas on the grill and cook until they start to blister but are not blackened, 1 to 3 minutes. Stack in a clean kitchen towel and wrap well. Serve warm, with the sliced steak and salsas.

Tip: If you have pre-ground spices, you can make the seasoning with 2 teaspoons ground guajillo chilli, ½ teaspoon ground black pepper, ½ teaspoon ground coriander, ¼ teaspoon ground cumin, ¾ teaspoon salt, 2 teaspoons garlic powder and 2 teaspoons onion powder.

Arroz rojo (red rice)

Also known as arroz Mexicano, these tomato-slicked grains of rice taste amazing (Getty/iStock)

Also known as arroz Mexicano, these tomato-slicked grains of rice taste amazing alongside beans, tacos, enchiladas and just about any spread of meat, seafood and vegetables. Castillo toasts the rice in garlicky oil first to give the final dish an even richer flavour. A simple spice blend does, too.

Serves: 4 to 6

Total time: 40 minutes

Ingredients:

400ml chicken stock, warmed

56g tomato paste

1½ tsp onion powder

½ tsp ground coriander

¼ tsp ground cumin

¼ tspfreshly ground black pepper

1 tbsp neutral oil, such as canola or vegetable

3 garlic cloves, thinly sliced

200g long-grain white rice

160g frozen mixed vegetables (or fresh or frozen corn)

Salt

Method:

1. In a small bowl or measuring cup, stir together the chicken stock, tomato paste, onion powder, coriander, cumin and pepper.

2. In a large fryign pan, heat the oil over medium. Add the garlic and rice, and cook, stirring frequently, until the rice is fragrant and lightly toasted, 3 to 4 minutes. Pour the stock mixture into the pan and bring to a full boil. Stir in the mixed vegetables, then reduce the heat to low, cover with a tightfitting lid and cook until the rice has absorbed all of the liquid, 15 to 20 minutes.

3. Turn off the heat and let the rice sit, covered, to steam for another 15 minutes. Uncover and let the steam release for 5 minutes, then fluff with a fork. Season with salt to taste. Serve alongside your favorite dishes.

And to drink...

Beer will go beautifully with these tacos, particularly the meaty carne asada. Not surprisingly, Mexican favourites like Dos Equis and Negra Modela would be excellent selections. Both are variations of central European lagers, reddish amber brews with malty notes, so if you want to try those, look for styles like Vienna lager, Dunkel and the paler Dortmunder Export. That said, a lot of beers would be delicious, regardless of style. So would a lot of red wines, especially those with soft fruit and lively acidity. I’ve had great experiences with carignans and carne asada. Beaujolais would be a great choice, as would easygoing cabernet francs from the Loire Valley. You could also try mencías from Ribera Sacra or blaufränkisches from Austria.

Pairings by Eric Asimov.

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