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ALS sufferer tells his wife he loves her out loud for first time in 16 years

The couple now communicate with an eye-movement tracker

Lamiat Sabin
Thursday 19 February 2015 11:47 GMT
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Lorraine and Dan now communicate more quickly than before with a new computer letterboard
Lorraine and Dan now communicate more quickly than before with a new computer letterboard (YouTube)

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A Canadian man with a motor-neurone disease has been able to tell his wife through speech that he loves her for the first time in more than 15 years.

Don Moir gradually lost his ability to speak and move from 1995, when he was diagnosed with ALS – Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis – which causes the death of brain neurons that control muscle movement.

ALS hit the headlines last summer with the Ice Bucket Challenge, which went viral in raising money and awareness.

Although he retains all cognitive functions and awareness, Don has not spoken since he was fitted with a ventilator in May 1999. He has since been cared for by his doting wife Lorraine, with whom he has two sons and a daughter.

The farming family from rural Canada used a letterboard to communicate with Don with which individual letters were selected one by one to spell out words.

Don with two of his three children
Don with two of his three children

Now, with the help of charitable organisation Not Impossible Labs, a laptop was customised to track eye-movements so Don could use his eyes to select letters from a screen to spell out words more quickly.

He used it to tell his wife “I love you,” which was read out by the computer.

He also wrote her a letter saying: “My dear Lorraine. I can’t imagine life without you.

“You have made the last twenty-five years fly by and the last twenty with ALS more bearable.

“I am looking forward to the next twenty-five years. Love, Don”

Although devices that help ALS patients talk through synthesized voices are not new, the biggest hurdle for the Not Impossible project was to overcome was Don’s inability to understand technology.

As he had first shown signs of the disease in the mid-1990s, Don missed out on learning how to operate laptops and mobile phones. He hadn’t even known how to switch a computer on, Lorraine said.

Matt Brassil, a publicity and strategy coordinator for the charity, told Huffington Post: “We had to figure out a way to create something simple that Don could use. In the end, the answer was staring us in the face: the letterboard.

Don around nine months after he was diagnosed with ALS
Don around nine months after he was diagnosed with ALS (YouTube)

“Don and Lorraine had used the letterboard for 15 years. It was a system they understood so we took the next step to make a digital version.”

Javed Gangjee, a volunteer for Not Impossible Labs who customised the technology for the family, said: “When I look at Don, that could be me, that could be my uncle, that could be my dad.

“What right do I have to do nothing about it?”

Lorraine said of the experiment: “We were happy to be the guinea pigs as a part of creating something that could potentially help others, and in the process something that would work for Don.”

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